Tommy standing with his arm around Steve. Steve has gray hair and is wearing a navy jacket. Tommy is wearing a matching baseball cap and navy blue jacket with an Adidas logo and block white S with a red letter through it

Accidental Overdose

When Tommy died, we had absolutely no clue that it was from an overdose. He died in early August, and we found out what killed him four months later! And we didn’t get the official coroner’s report until a year later!

Tommy standing with his arm around Steve. Steve has gray hair and is wearing a navy jacket. Tommy is wearing a matching baseball cap and navy blue jacket with an Adidas logo and block white S with a red letter through it

Stumbling Forward

When you face the unexpected loss of your child, the grief can be more than you can bear. I found Tommy in his bed at home … dead. He was only 20 years old. You stumble forward in complete shock, not knowing what to do next. How to live life with such unbearable pain.

Tommy's right leg with a small black dot just below and to the left of his ankle bone. He's wearing rolled up jeans and topsiders without socks

The Tommy Tat

Months before Tommy died, I noticed a spot on his ankle. I asked him if he was getting warts again! Tommy laughed and said that a guy he knew wanted to practice tattooing, and Tommy decided to get a small circle on his ankle.

Katie and Tommy standing in front of a blue lake. Katie is on the left wearing a UCD sweatshirt with her hands on her hips. Tommy is on the left wearing an As baseball cap and a North Face sweatshirt

Carrying On

Approaching the one year anniversary of Tommy’s death on August 5, 2017

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